I was not supposed to visit an OB yet but yesterday I woke up with my first "spotting" experience. I was so worried and alarmed because I never experienced bleeding with my first pregnancy. My hubby took a leave from work so he and Arya could go with me to the doctor. But I told him that it would be better if I go alone so he could also save his energy. And I would prefer if he and Arya would avoid unnecessary trips to the hospital as much as possible. I have been asking friends for feedback and been reading on OB and hospital recommendations. For my hospital choice, I had 2 choices- Hospital A and Hospital B - both top tier hospitals in the metro. From my research, I was able to narrow it down to 3 OB's from Hospital B. As for Hospital A, I only had 1 OB on my list. However, in case we wouldn't be able to get a reliable helper next year, I might consider giving birth in the province so at least my mom and sisters can help us take care of the baby. Giv